Four local churches joined together in a multidenominational effort to bring the community together during the Christmas season, hosting a Blue Christmas — also known as a Longest Night — service Sunday at Grove Church.
Approximately 100 people from across the community attended the reflective service, which was designed for those experiencing grief, loss, loneliness or hardship during the holidays. Attendees comprised people from all walks of life, including those without religious affiliation.
“It was important to us that everyone felt welcome,” said Jeff Helpman, pastor at Grove Church. “Some people might not have a church family or anything to do with God, but they were welcome.”
The service was a collaborative effort by Grove Church, Bryson City Presbyterian Church, Bryson City United Methodist Church and First Baptist Church of Bryson City, which together form the Swain Pastors Association. This marked the association’s first time partnering to host a Blue Christmas service.
“It’s the first year that any of the current pastors can remember doing this,” said Cole Altizer, pastor at Bryson City United Methodist Church. “We are intentionally trying to partner more, and we’re seeing a lot of positive feedback because of it. We believe a rising tide lifts all boats.”
Altizer added that the collaboration reflects the close-knit nature of the community and a shared desire among pastors to serve together despite denominational differences.
“We’re all part of the same Christian family,” Altizer said. “There’s a lot more that unites us than divides us.”
Grove Church was selected as the host site because of its dim lighting, coffee bar and casual atmosphere, which church organizers felt would help create a sense of comfort. The service featured subdued, traditional music, scripture readings and moments of reflection. A guitarist from Bryson City Presbyterian Church performed, along with The Grove Band, which opened the service with “Waiting for You” by The Many.
Helpman opened the service with Matthew 11:28–30 (The Message version), inviting attendees to find rest and comfort:
“Are you tired? Worn out? Burned out on religion? Come to me. Get away with me and you’ll recover your life. I’ll show you how to take a real rest. Walk with me and work with me—watch how I do it. Learn the unforced rhythms of grace. I won’t lay anything heavy or ill-fitting on you. Keep company with me and you’ll learn to live freely and lightly.”
Participants were also invited to write reflections on wooden star ornaments, hang them on a Christmas tree and leave them there.
“So many people took part,” Helpman said. “It showed that people were engaged and willing to bring their reflections forward.”
All four pastors spoke during the service, emphasizing space for both sorrow and hope, while squeezing holiday love and acceptance.
“It was a really meaningful service,” Altizer said. “It allowed people who may not feel happy or cheery this time of year — or who are feeling both sadness and joy — to have space for that.”
The Swain Pastors Association plans to continue collaborating during Lent and Holy Week and hopes to expand partnerships with other faith communities in the area. Those interested in learning more can contact Jeff Helpman at grovechurchbrysoncity@gmail.com.